"Sad alumni of the Church"
In fact, I think you'll probably wonder how he knows your life story.
Hopefully you aren't an "alumnus" of the Church; after all, you're reading this. But even if you are- especially if you are- this is meant for you.
And if you are still within the Church, I have a hunch that this is still your story. And Dr. Rosenbladt has the only answer.